- Ego is attachment to a wrong image of myself. It is when we are not aware of our true identity, and identify ourselves with all that we have acquired.
- our body, name, position, relationship, caste, nationality are all acquired. They are all mine, but they are not I. I am a pure conscient being and it is- my body, name, family and position.
- A royal soul is tje one whose state of mind is not dependent on others. Royalty means being a master of oneself, not a victim or a slave.
- Detachment means my state of mind in not dependent on others, and then I can remain stable and give unconditional love and acceptance.
- Worry is not Love. When we worry we create and send negative energy. In any situation let's create the right quality of thoughts, that is love, care and concern.
- When we remain stable and then share with others- why they need to change, then it is only for their benefit and not for our happiness.
- Criticism dis-empowers, de-motivates people. appreciation empowers and energizes them. Let us be aware that our thoughts should be as sweet as the words we use with people.
- We create 25 to 30 thoughts per minute speak but speak only a few sentences per minute. Thoughts are more in number and travel faster than our words.
- Let us be liberal with our appreciation, because it gives people the energy to realise and transform their weakness.
- We cannot make people realize their weaknesses, What to change and Why to change can be realised by each one only for themselves.
- Every thought and word we send out to a little child is being used by them to create an image of themselves, i.e. their self esteem.
- When we are peaceful and stable then we are happy and we accept others as they are, it means we love them, because love is unconditional acceptance.
- The energy of love is our natural quality. It gets blocked when we become judgmental about people.
- when we think about other's weakness, then their weakness becomes the quality of our thoughts, and very soon a part of our personality.
- Let us become aware and observe one quality in everyone we meet and interact with.
- Let us in the awareness- 'I am a loveful being, and so is everyone I meet, and I accept each one as they are'.
- Accepting people means- their behaviour does not create a disturbance in our mind. We tell them what is right but with the energy of love, not rejection.
- No one can hurt me, and I do not hurt anyone. My behaviour can be a trigger for the others, I need to change my behaviour, but I cannot take responsibility of their hurt, it is their hurt, it is their creation.
- People can hold us responsible for their pain, but if we create guilt, then it is negative energy, it depletes our power and hence we are not able to transform. Realization means a mistake once is not to be repeated.
- To bring about a transformation I need to know - Why I want to change? What about myself do I want to change? How to change? Unless the Why and What to change is clear, the How will not get implemented.
- Everyone around me is an actor, and each one is playing their role. Each actor is a pure being. Let me the pure being interact with another pure being, not interact with them on the basis of their roles.
- When we are natural in our relationships, and accept others as they are, it gives them the freedom to be their natural selves.
- When I am soul conscious, my consciousness triggers the same consciousness in others, and they are able to experience their purity.
- Spirituality is natural, simple and a very practical way of living. Spirituality is not doing things or becoming someone, it is about just about being who we truly are.
- It is not necessary that what the majority believe - is the truth, it is only a belief. Let me experiment with the belief, till I am comfortable, and only then accept it as the truth.
- Let us clean our mind before we meet someone again, so that we do not interact with them through the perspective of our past experiences, because they could have damaged.
- As soon as we start creating thoughts of hurt, let us take out a few minutes to be with ourselves and counsel ourselves with powerful, positive and loveful thoughts.
- No one can hurt me, and I do not hurt anyone. My behaviour can be a trigger for others, I need to change my behaviour, but I cannot take responsibility of their hurt, it is their creation.
- Let us take care that we create the right thoughts, so that we can speak what we think , and do not need to pretend or be tactful in our relationships.
- When we use anger, and others experience fear, we mistake it as respect. Fear creates pain and reduces efficiency of working.
- The ones who suppress their anger because of fear, then create anger in the presence of those weaker than them, only to make themselves feel powerful.
- Fear and respect can never be together. Respect is pure and positive energy, fear is deep negative energy. Therefore those who fear us, do not respect us.
- Ego is lack of Self Respect. In any situation, if we react aggressively or get hurt it is our ego, and if we remain stable and have faith in ourselves it is self respect.
- Self Respect means who I am and what I am doing - is the best to my capacity up the present moment I am ready to change.
- When we have a strong self esteem, the power to adjust, accept and mould ourselves in situations will come naturally.
- As we become aware of our thoughts, let's check the belief system from which these arise.
- Anger is needed to get work done. We have lived with this belief system and teach our children to grow with the same.
- We like people to deal with us with LOVE, because each of us is a loveful being. So everyone around us would like the same.
- Every time we use anger as the tool, we experience the negative energy as we give it to them. They get hurt and their vibrations travel to us. So we get more than we give.
- Our responsibility is to take care of ourselves, then people and then get the work done. Let's try a new belief system- Love is needed to get work done.
- When we punish a child, the guilt the child creates dis-empowers the child. Pain can never bring about any realization, because there will not be the power to transform.
